My experience of having a cheater husband is something which always gives me nightmares and I fear that this does not happen with any other woman besides me. Only someone who has experienced what I have experienced can understand what I am talking about. Cheating is not something which is to be taken lightly, it’s a very awful thing, so much so that you stop trusting anyone even though they are honest in reality just because of the awful experience that you had gone thought. I was cheated by my husband who was at one time my only love, my only hope for goodness in this world and a trustworthy companion who was always with me when I needed him. We had a very nice marriage, one which was built on trust a pillar which broken can break marriages and result in divorce. In the initial five years after our marriage, everything was on the top, we had a good home, we had two beautiful kids, and our way of life was simply something which a person will crave for. Then, as things progressed we came across different challenges in our lives , my husband was seeking another good opportunity with a company after his long relationship with them, as he felt that they no longer needed him. We made a decision to shift to another city and find some good opportunity there for myself as well as for him so that we can both contribute to our family financially and hence take care of our kids in the best way. We got a house in the city, which was awesome, there was nothing more that we could have asked for , the house was fully furnished and we just needed to go there and stay in. But there was one problem and that was our neighbor. There was this woman who used to sweet talk my husband in front of me every time and since she was slim and not as overweight as I was, my husband used to tell me how well she has maintained herself. This made me jealous of her because I would think from an age perspective, as I was too slim when I was of the age of this neighbor but as we get married things are not always the same. So, I realized that my husband , when he appreciates my neighbor being slim , actually does not appreciate me not being like her , however when I was of her age I was quite better than her. Things moved on, and I ignored such experiences, and then came the disaster, I went to the market to buy something and informed him that I will take time for me to return. However, when I was halfway to the market I realized that I had forgotten my purse at home, so I headed back home. What I found was the door was open and my neighbor was with my husband making love in my own bed. That was it, I could not bear the sight of this cheating husband and just asked him to divorce me.
Mar
04
Cheated by apparent honesty
My name is Melissa and I would like to share with you my story about how I was cheated by my boyfriend whom I loved so deeply and couldn’t live without him. Yes, it does hurt a lot, but life teaches you to go on, as the other person who cheats on you does. There is no real meaning in actually hurting yourself because of the unethical behavior that someone else has shown. Such an attitude further weakens you as if you don’t have your own self respect and are without an option; when the world is so big with such incidents of cheating spouses take places every day.
How did we start loving each other?
We met in college when I was sixteen and he was senior to me, however, I did not fall in love with him in the usual for many ‘love at the first sight ‘way. In fact it was love based on respect for the person I fell in love with. I was good looking and may boys would play around with me just to make me their girlfriend, but I knew that these guys were just not being serious and all it matters to them is lust and they just make false promises. Then I met John, a person with whom you feel comfortable to stay with, not too bold and not too shy. A mix of qualities that he had in him which made him attract to me , as I was attracted to him because of such qualities. From the way he treated me it was clear that he was not behind my body but he talked to my mind, he talked to my soul and shared all experiences that he had in life with me, even though I was a stranger to him.
What attracted him to me?
My honesty, this is something which he himself had informed, me. Yes, he was right at that one, I am someone who believes in being honest and expects honesty from others as well. This world has many cheaters but there are also many good people around who think like you and hence form a bond based on the common quality of honesty which keeps you with them for a long time. John too had this quality of honesty in him and he told me stories about cheaters in different fields and how he hated them for their unethical behavior. These qualities were liked by me so much so that, I would bet on his honesty.
How did we break up?
Because of cheating, yes that’s the truth, which was as unbelievable to me as it is to you right now while you are reading this. The questions that may be coming to your mind would be i.e. how come a bond which was based on honesty, between two honest persons break up because of the exact quality, cheating? Yes, it’s surprising but it’s the truth as well which I don’t believe should be hidden. John, whom I believed to be an honest person, actually was found out to be a very smart deceiver. He had a bet with his friends that he will cheat on me after he befriends me and breaks the challenge that his friends had made to him. So there I was, just a challenge for him to break. I cried, yes I cried a lot, but now I smile because I have to take the positives out of the negative experiences that I had in my life. The experience was that I should not just go by what is apparent of a person and should actually test people based on their principles, their principles should be put to test.
Mar
03
How not to encourage your husband to become a cheater – a personal story
Cheating by husbands is so much common these days that it makes us ask ourselves the question, are men born to cheat? Then we come across some really good men who are perceived to be honest to break the usual perception. However, not all women are lucky enough to be with such men, who they can trust for being loyal to them in spite of them being bad to them. One such example is me; I was one of those women who liked to think just about myself and what I do and what I want. Nothing else mattered to me except my own priorities and I expected people to do what I want them to do and not to complain about anything. The person who was at the receiving end of this bad attitude that I had was my own beloved husband. He was a nice man, ready to do anything for me. He loved me took care of my kids and treated me like a queen. These qualities in him made me actually think that he is doing so because he finds himself to be lucky as I have married him, and hence tries to impress me with such qualities. This led me to look down upon him and my expectations increased, I started hurting him with my attitude by insulting him and his manhood and making him realize how a useless person he was, even though the opposite was true. Things grew worse and I was being very mean to him, not thinking about him anymore, not loving him as I did earlier and just being a wife for the sake of it, as if there is nothing that a wife is supposed to do for a husband. I started making worse challenges to him by demeaning him by letting him know how luck a man he is because he has found someone like me in marriage; else he does not have any value himself and thus is not someone who a woman will desire to be a husband. There were many warnings that he gave me, letting me know that I am crossing the lines, however, I was adamant on my attitude. Then one day, I realized that my female neighbor had this likeness for my husband for what he was, and so I thought how ungrateful I am to him, for his companionship. Alas! It was too late, I found out via my friends that my husband is in a relationship with someone for the very reason of my attitude and challenges to his manhood. I made a serious mistake of hurting his ego to the extent that to get it back, he indulged in a relationship with someone else, who respected him for what he was, despite not being a wife as I was. I blamed no one but myself for this tragedy, went on my knees to apologize to him and promised to him that I would never be bad to him and he too apologized for what he has done. Now, we are living a good happy life, but I just want you to know that you should not be like me to encourage your husband to be a cheater.
Mar
03
Cheating – The Breaker of Trust in Relationships
Believe it or not, to be cheated by someone is not a good feeling even for those who don’t consider cheating to be always wrong. This feeling that makes someone think about themselves as guilty of hurting others always stays with them till they are alive, all they do is try to convince themselves why they were right even if they did an act of cheating. They try to find justifications for themselves but all in vain as their life tells others that in reality they are not happy and are suffering mentally because of the guilt feeling that does not leave them, which they always try to hide. There are many types of cheaters and cheating that people do, however the most hurtful one is that which is done between couples who trust each other for what they are and love them with their full heart. These couples can be husband and wife or a girlfriend and a boyfriend. The reason why cheating between couples Is considered to be worse than any other type is because of the sheer damage to one’s life is done because of it. To such an extent that when it’s said that a man or a women is a cheater then the first thought that comes to one’s mind is about a boyfriend cheating with the girlfriend or girlfriend cheating on the boyfriend, a husband who is known to cheat the wife or the wife who cheats the husband. There are many stories when it comes to cheating husbands or cheating wives but the society seems to be concerned about just one fact and neglect the other. The fact that men cheat on women is highlighted as if it’s only the men who are supposed to hold the tag of a cheater while a women is seems as some who cheats out of being a victim of circumstances. This is a wrong idea that is being spread so much in the society which demeans men and deceives men about what women can be in reality. Men can cheat and then be known for it , however women when they cheat they have this peculiarity about them that people don’t tend to suspect them because of the smartness they display when they cheat. The man can be open and clear to his friend asking him to not tell his wife or girlfriend about him being with someone else yesterday, however on the other hand women are clever enough to do the preparations well in advance so that they don’t have to be answerable out of suspicion. However, it seems that the more it’s blamed on men by calling them cheaters and women kept away from it, the more it will result in the society exemplify the truth as falsehood and falsehood as the truth, which in turn will affect the society’s true growth and keep the society in a confused state about the path to compliance between men and women and till the time we have both of the cheating each other , the trust of the whole society is at stake and to change such a society into a trustworthy society , what we need is people not being cheaters but being loyal to each other.
Feb
26
How I got Caught Cheating on my Baby Mama
Cheating on your baby mama is a dumb ass thing to do. I did it and I am going to share with you the dumb ass ways I got caught cheating on my baby mama. I bought new jockey shorts, with my new woman’s initials sewn into the waist band. I was to eager to get up and go to work, on Saturdays- I am off weekends! I shave off my beard, I have had a beard for twenty plus years! I went to the dentist, actually started taking care of my self. Said I was at work, when my girl was about front of the building looking at the closed for business sign! I used my baby mama cell phone to call my new girl because the battery was dead on my cell. The kids caught me kissing my new girl, and I told them she was aunt Marie. I am an only child with no siblings. I did my own laundry, and left a tube of lipstick in my pants pocket. I dialed my baby mama and started talking dirty to her, then called her Marie. I got drunk at our wedding anniversary and announced I wanted a divorce as I kissed Auntie Marie! So, the short story is you are going to get caught cheating on your baby mama, its just a matter of time. Cheating on your baby mama requires a lot of lying, manipulation and deception.
Feb
24
I got Cheated on by my girlfriend
Hey yall, I know this sounds dumb as hell, I have been cheated on by my girl. I caught her cheating on me with some dude from the projects. He is one broke dude, and not much to look at either. What is wrong with my girl? Why would my girl cheat on me? All I know is that I am really hot, pissed and downright furious. I was cheated on by my girl the same day I got a speeding ticket. Yeah, I knew she was sneaking around. The Baby Mama GPS tracker sent me and instant alert to my cell and I flew, at the speed of light to catch her in the act! Yeah, she is not my Baby Mama, but whatever, The Baby Mama GPS gave me a complete run down of her movements, and now I have enough to confront her ass. She is busted! I know she is going to try to deny cheating me, even though the Baby Mama GPS Tracker sent me right to my car, yeah, she drives my car and I take the bus to work! Not anymore! The Baby Mama GPS is very accurate; I traced her to a motel, a park and this dudes crib! The Baby Mama GPS Tracker works, buy it, quit playing games. My girl cheated on me and I know I could have prevented it if I had the Baby Mama GPS Tracker sooner. see it at www.babymamatracker.com
Feb
24
Cheating women, do they exist? Yes of course! Ask me.
Many men have this quality in them that they feel, “Oh My girl is a good woman” she is far from cheating me. This is nothing but an illusion which helps them think that there are fewer women who cheat than men and more over keeps them blinded so much that they are not ready to even give a check. Hence it’s very important to do a reality check instead of depending on old clichés and opinions that people have about women and how they are perceived in the society. Due to the advancement of technology people get connected to each other like never before, and the more they get connected the more options they see in their lives to do choose from. These options either tempt them to desire that which is not within their capacity or just keep them in an illusion about the things they do, which in their opinion is perfectly alright. One of these things is the act of cheating on the spouse. It has become so easy for people to cheat these days on social networking especially women that they just don’t get caught because they are having those relations via social networking where the husband does not know what the wife is doing , or the boyfriend does not know what the girl is doing. Of course I am keeping the personal conversations in perspective and not the public ones. But this reality that women cheat very smartly is something which is not given a special focus and men are considered to be the first ones to prove themselves as cheaters which is unjust as well as an old tradition which is inherited without any check. My own wife cheated on me via social networking, she always did let me know how much she loved me and cared for me, but Alas! I didn’t know what was being done behind my back. From the day I brought the internet connection home, and introduced my wife to social networking she seemed to have a different agenda altogether. I had this feeling that she is using social networking to cheat on me or find someone else who is more meaningful to her and that probably she has lost interest in me. She used to ask me when I asked her questions to enquire as to what she is doing or who is a specific person in her friend list, she use to reply by asking me “don’t you trust me?” and I remember telling her every time that I do trust her but I don’t trust others as to what they can do to you. And sadly the feeling that proved to be right, she was actually cheating on me behind my back. I came to know this when I followed her unusually during my office hours and then found her going to the same man that I saw in her friend list. Hence, I proved the innate feeling in me to be right, and this was just one of the examples how women cheat with intelligence and are far more better than men in doing that, they use their emotions to get away with their cheating.
Feb
23
He cheated on me even though I was the one who helped him
Sometimes life teaches you to not be stupid and test people for what they are and be in a good trustworthy company. There are many who warn you with their experiences, but when love is in the air you tend to lean towards your heart than lean towards your intellect. This is what happened with me. I felt in love with Steve who happened to be a drug addict , I don’t know what was it that attracted a person like me to him , I guess the sheer beauty of his face which I found very attractive. We started dating each other when we were in our college and then at that time, I felt that even though he is a person known to take drugs, I can assist him in getting out of it. I gave him encouragement to stop using drugs and start living a tension free life as other people do. I explained to him how drugs cannot just make him physically weak but also harm his mental state. There were times when I had to call the ambulance to take him to the nearest hospital when he had problems; I was always there with him every time he needed me. Then I introduced him to a drug rehabilitation center and explained to him, how he can be helped to get out of the drug addiction by systematic course which needs to be followed strictly. His parents appreciated what I was doing and felt very good for me. Things went very well and he was just improvising on his health, the drug rehabilitation center treatment seemed to work. There were no signs of a normal drug addict on my boyfriend anymore and he too informed me how good it feels to live life like a non addict. This is when he became fit , started going to the gym to build some muscles, and surprisingly did a very good turnaround , no one would recognize that he is the same drug addict who could not even think about being in a gym for a workout. I felt great too, but there was a problem that I realized with Steve, he no longer thinks about me as he used to, he started taunting me on my looks which he never did earlier, probably because he has become quite healthy and got the female attraction as well. He did not wait for me to come along with him as he did usually and was so much of a changed person than what he was; it was like he started thinking to high of himself and low about me. Then, to add to this horrible experience, was the bitter truth, I found out Steve is actually cheating me and having relations with the girl who used to go to the gym. I came to know that they even go together and hence was completely broken by the fact that the man whom I loved so much, thought that I should help him live a great life, cheated on me. Then I remember those people who stopped me from befriending Steve and wished I would have listened to them. It seems no matter how much you do for a Man, they always seem to cheat on the good girls. A lesson Learned!
Feb
22
A Cheater is the man who I loved the Most
These days we have things going on so fast; the way people connect with each other via internet is just unbelievable. Friends who were once with us when we were in school get connected to us, using social networking as if they were never away from us. We get reminded of our old days when we had fun and thus it becomes a reason for us to be happy as the bond of friendship grows. There are also other benefits like we can do businesses online within our friends circle and hence explore a new world of possibilities. However, there is another side to this boom of social networking too and that is something which can destroy some people’s lives and I was one such victim, a victim of social networking. I was a novice and was not much aware about computers; my boyfriend was very active in web designing and used to inform me about the benefits. However, he never discussed much about social networking with me and I was not too interested as well as I had this gut feeling that what is online is false and can’t be the truth. So I just entertained myself with Gospel lessons, learning them and teaching to others as well. It was an awesome feeling to do the work of God. Then one of my neighbors suggested me that if I am so good at preaching, I should actually make use of the options available in social networking so that I can make the most of what I do and also at the same time get exposure in the public even without being actually present with them. My aim was to spread the message of God and not differentiate between my audiences. Since we were in a live in relationship for more than 6 years, trust was not something which I felt was an issue , as I devoted myself to my God and did not believe in breaking trustworthy bonds with partners. I also advised people how to build trust between themselves and eradicate the suspicion. Then, I actually started using a social networking website which was quite famous among people, and I too thought I should give it a try. I was hesitant to upload my personal information for security reasons. Then, as I was adding new friends, surprisingly I got a friend request from my boyfriend and he was quite flirty in the way he approached me with his friend request. I thought for a while that he is probably aware that it’s me who is the unknown person preaching the Gospel, but then I realized that he is just unaware about me and his profile does not even show me in a relationship with him and reflected as if he is single and looking out for someone. Then I explored his personal images and to my shock I found images that just woke me up. I felt I was just being with a man for six years without even realizing how terrible womanizer he is and these images became a reason for our relationship to break. Hence I would say that if you need to check your man , please do check his online profile , you never know what you would witness.
Feb
22
hell yeah i cheated on her, So what!
Yeah, I am cheating on my baby mama, I am a cheater and a liar! So what! I cheated on my girl left and right, I have three girls to satisfy and two of those girls are my baby mama! They do not know about each other, are you kidding? If they knew about each other I would be dead meat! I was a young buck when I met my first baby mama, she was hot to trot, and the next thing you know, nine months later she was my baby mama! I think she trapped me, or at least tried to trap me into that marriage thing with her by getting knocked up! I made her do paternity DNA testing, I had to be sure that the baby was mine, I mean after all, she was fast to jump in the sack with me, why wouldn’t she be shacking up with other dudes too? I have one other baby mama, she has two of my sons, and I am cheating on her too! I hooked up with my sons baby mama a couple years back, and things just happened. I have three kids by two women, and I also have a girl on the side, she is much younger, she just turned 20. I am not crazy enough to let that hottie go, but I still have to make time for my baby mama and kids! There are only so many hours in the day, and since I have been in this weird set up with my baby mama and new girl I have been worn out, into the ground! I have been cheating on my baby mama for at least 7 years.
Feb
21
Cheating from a Man’s View!
Cheating from a Man’s view:-
There are different viewpoints with regards to how men think about the subject of cheating,
- Some men think that it’s not at all acceptable that a man cheats on a woman;
- Some men think that it’s OK till the time the family is not affected;
- Some think that cheating is not something which should be considered as bad but should be just considered a necessity of the sexual desires which a body naturally has.
Having said that, there are different reasons which many men are found to give when they are caught up cheating or they are suspected about it, either by their wives or girlfriends or their relatives and friends.
So let’s see some of the reasons why men cheat if they do.
1. Seeking sexual variety:-
This is considered by many men as the top most reason for men to become cheaters or lie to their wives about the extra marital affairs or girlfriends about their sexual relationships.
They seek to be with different women and try to give a satisfaction to themselves as being men whom women want to be with, or if it’s the case of college boy then he wants to prove how much of a stud he is, just because of the number of girlfriends that he has and the way he manages them altogether by fooling around.
2. Being Unhappy: -
Many men are found to say that they cheated or cheat as a result of being unhappy.
Either because they are in a bad relationship or they have been going through a rough phase in their life where the marriage is just nothing but a piece of paper which stops them from satisfying their desires or they are not really in a position to get married develop this habit of cheating on their girlfriends or wives, and the one of the biggest reasons for them to find satisfaction in it, is that it does not cost much as compared to marriage, it’s cheap and sexually pleasing and exciting as well.
3. The society factor:-
In different societies around the world we have different perspectives of how sex is looked upon and how infidelity is looked upon.
An example can be of Japan where the infidelity rates are higher and the divorce rates are lower, indicating that infidelity is probably considered such that it does not have to be the reason for divorce as compared to the other parts of the world where infidelity is considered to be the most compelling reason for divorce.
So if a man is brought up in a society which is actually on the verge of diminishing the loyalty issue between husbands and wives, girlfriends and boyfriends then, cheating should be considered as something which came naturally for the man.
This society factor is very important to be considered when it comes to cheating or infidelity.
Consequences and how to stop cheating from a Man’s perspective:-
Consequences of cheating are many which differs from man to man, from breakdown of the family structure to the development of a society which considers normal something which was once considered to be bad, not because it became good but there are so many people doing it, that considering it OK seems to be the only option.
There are also some men who consider it as a source of happiness and getting out of their cultural norms to do what they want to do.
Men would stop cheating not when they are physically stopped from it, which is a trigger for excitement for many, but they will stop when they are ideologically changed to believe whether what they are doing is right or wrong.
Feb
20
Cheating from a Woman’s perspective
Cheating from a Woman’s perspective:-
As men are known to look out for other women, having a reputation of being unfaithful, women on the other hand are known to be extra particular about their men so that they are assured that the men they are with are being faithful to them and not being dishonest.
Let’s share with you a woman’s viewpoint on cheating. Cheating has many perspectives and these perspectives differ from culture to culture and region to region throughout the world. Why women cheat? And what do the consider cheating? Such are the questions that come under the same perspectives that have been described above.
Let’s see what is cheating from a woman’s view:-
Dishonesty:-
This is the biggest factor that putts off a woman when they come to know about their boyfriends who cheat on them or their husbands who do so. Being dishonest is something which betrays trust and hence does not guarantee an assurance about your partner’s loyalty or living a happy life with them. So knowing the husband or boyfriend who once used to give lots of love messages, phone calls etc…is the same who has actually cheated on you becomes a compelling reason for women actually divorcing men if they are married , or losing the respect for the boyfriend with whom they were in a relationship for ever.
A compelling force for tit-for-tat attitude:-
Cheating partners can result in women actually acquiring the reason to take revenge and then do the same to their partner what they have suffered i.e. face disloyalty. However, not all women want to go to this extreme step but some do, just because they want to prove to the men that if you can do it, I can do it too. This can only be correct if two wrong acts can make one right act.
Consequences of cheating from a women’s view point:-
Many women want to be loved by a truthful person a partner who does not cheat on them and hence becomes more attractive to them as a result of their loyalty as women are known as emotional beings. However, it has been observed that when a woman is faced with disloyalty, she tends to break down, so much so, that she tends to look down upon herself as if it was her mistake that her partner was disloyal even though she was not wrong. So cheating is something which in itself says it all about the fact that it’s not correct , especially because when women commit themselves to their partner , they expect the same loyalty from them back and if they don’t find it , they tend to do the same that was done to them in some cases. The exceptions are those women who are deemed as ‘Alpha Women’ who want to cheat to satisfy their sexual desires or to give themselves the luxury and pride of being a women with power or position , where she is the one dominating men. Women view cheating as something which is a reason for them to be extra careful or suspicious about their relationships, for which they are often blamed for not trusting their partner
Feb
20
Ladies, Pay Attention!
The number one reason why a guy cheats on his wife is because he is not getting enough attention at home! Ladies, pay attention to your man. Listen to his body language. If you have been married or dating for some time and find yourself in a situation where you are bored, lonely or have a wandering eye, then pay attention to your man, he is probably wandering too.
Giving your partner or husband the attention he needs will keep his eye from wandering. If your man is getting slow in the bedroom department and spends more and more time with the guys, you may find him cheating on you. You need to spice it up, maybe buy a sexy night gown or some new panties.
The first place most guys will go for attention is either their mama or buddies. There, he can complain to both about how you are slack, and lazy. The next stop will be with another woman. If another woman feels sorry for him, maybe pays him a little bit of attention and offers some desperately need affection, your man will end up cheating on you.
Feb
20
Men cheat for attention!
Sometimes men can be out right pigs, sloppy, messy and mindless! They find themselves looking for a woman that will treat them as good as their mama will, but offer all of the things a wife should do!
Some men just cannot seem to treat a woman like a wife, instead they want their wives to wait on them, cook, clean and be an all around housekeeper as well as give up a little booty on the side! The chores of keeping up a home and family can be overwhelming at times. Some men are spoiled, their mama did everything for them, and now want that same trait in a wife! Good luck, today’s modern woman wants nothing to do with a cry baby mamas boy who cant get off his ass and make dinner or bathe the kids.
Finding the attention that a mamas boy needs can result in cheating on his wife! The cheating husband finds himself looking for attention, for someone who will coddle him, make him feel the way his mom did. Mother and son relationships can be a significant source of stress in a marriage. The husband always comparing his wife to his mom can be a poisonous seed, that left unattended will grow into a poison!
Feb
20
Women Cheat on their Men for Elevated Social Status!
Women find them selves cheating on their husbands for some of the most absurd reasons. Sometimes, women think that a man can offer social status. The idea of having tickets to the hottest shows or being able to get into the most exclusive night clubs may be a deal breaker for hooking up with a guy. Social status is a very important concept to women of all ages. The idea of being important, appreciated and flattered with goodies is the dream of most women from the teenage years always to the retirement home.
Women who find themselves in a boring, dead end relationship may look outside the box for some excitement.! The possibility of meeting the next prince charming is only a hook up away. The idea of cheating on their man doesn’t really bother them. Some women think that as long as he never finds out she is cheating, all is well in the relationship. Maybe the woman who is cheating feels safe and secure in her current relationship, however is lacking some of the basic needs that her current man cannot provide.
Cheating on your husband or boyfriend is a personal decision, it does not just happen!
Feb
20
I Cheated on my Baby Mama!
I was with my Baby Mama for eight long years. I cheated on my baby mama because she was slack. She was always to busy running around with this one, that one and the other, then she would be gone off to get her nails done. No, she didn’t cheat on me, (that I know of) but I cheated on her for a long, long time. It took her years to catch on.
I cheated on my baby mama because she just didn’t want to spend any sexy time with me. She wanted to go ramming the roads, shopping and hang with her trashy little girl friends down at the salon. She really didn’t take care of our kids; she was always dropping them off at her mom’s house
Another reason I ended up cheating on me baby mama is that she acted like she did not care about me. She never paid any attention to me after the kids were born; she acted like I was her servant. She definitely forgot how to treat a man! So, it’s very simple actually, she ignored me and treated me like crap so, I ended up cheating on my baby mama!
Feb
20
Private Investigator catches him cheating!
I hired private investigator to follow my husband, I was sure he was cheating on me. I just do not have the patience or time to follow my husband around for days at a time, we have kids at home. I was worried about the financial and emotional expense, and concerned about taking my suspicions to the next level. The private investigator I hired was very discreet, no one else knew I was using his services to catch my husband cheating on me. I was ashamed of myself for suspecting my hubby of cheating on me. I was worried about hiring the private investigator, I was scared that I was being foolish and over reacting to some of my suspicions. My husband was working later and later, but I never saw an increase in his payroll direct deposits, we have a joint checking account. At first, I thought maybe, he was using drugs, but realized that because of his job he could never get away with that. Then, the ideas of him cheating on me made more sense, he was gone all the time, changed his shower and shave routine as well as bought new clothing!
The private investigator followed my husbands every move for about two weeks. The private investigator asked me a lot of questions about his work routine, where his usual hang out spots were and what time he usually got home in the evening. He has a gps tracking service that can pinpoint my husbands every movement, and since our cell phones are under my name he used a software program to record his phone calls and text messages. I have absolute proof of my husband cheating on me, the investigator gave me a couple hundred color photos, recorded phone calls in mp3 format and even included a photo, name and address of the woman my husband was cheating on me with! I couldn’t believe that his services were that fast! The private investigator was very kind, he offered me a lot of advice on how to deal with the divorce court proceedings and gave me a recommendation for a good divorce lawyer. The private investigator I hired was very knowledgeable about family court law, he gathered information that could be used in court and did not bill me for anything else. I am fortunate to have found a such a nice guy!
I used the services of the private investigator to get an answer that I just could not get on my own! I have the proof I need to accuse my husband cheating on me and win in court!
Feb
16
The Baby Mama GPS Tracker really Works!
I caught my baby mama cheating on me with a gps tracker! I had it
installed on her car. I told her I was taking her car in for service. If she can
lie, I can lie! I wasn’t really sure if she was cheating on me. She would pack
up the kids and say she was dropping them off at day care. I found out that she
was only working part time, and her mom had the kids!
I didn’t think spending the money on the baby mama tracker was
worth it, but it was. I caught her ass, red handed, the baby mama gps tracker
sent a text to my cell, and bam, I had her ass red handed!
The baby mama gps tracker is stealth; she doesn’t even know it’s on
the car! I got the whole report, where she was, what streets she drove to get
there and how long she spent at each location. Apparently she was using our car
to ride some other dude around! I didn’t want to have to resort to buying the
baby mama gps tracker, but I did. I needed proof and got it!
Cheating on your man is wrong and take a lesson from me, don’t do it, you
will get caught by baby mama gps tracker.
Feb
16
Cheating on your man makes you a skank!
Listen, my ex-wife cheated on me for a couple of years. I found out
she was cheating on me, and I hit the roof. I was living in some weird reality
that our relationship was just fine! She was cheating on me with every Tom,
Dick, Harry, Michael and Larry. I think she is skank, she is my baby mama, and
if I could change it I would.
Cheating on your husband definitely makes you a skank! People are under
the impression that old fashioned gentlemen no longer exist, they do!
When I meet a lady, I treat her with respect and get to know her.
I am not interested in meeting anyone that has cheated on their husband or
boyfriend. I am a nice guy, looking for a steady lady who likes
children!
So, for all of you women out there that are cheating on your man,
get a grip. Cheating on your husband makes it bad for all the other guys in
town. It’s hard to trust a new found love interest when you have been lied to
and cheated on soo many times!
Don’t do it! Cheating on your husband makes you a
skank!
Feb
15
Tonight is not your Lucky Night!
Sometimes, we go out, have a few drinks and the next thing you know you
are hanging around some hot chick, she is digging on you, and woo hoot, you are
going to get lucky tonight! There is one small problem with that scenario, your
wife and four kids are at home waiting for you. Cheating on your wife is just
not an option, drunk or not!
Sure, life is getting hum drum, boring, and same old stuff is happening
every day, you need a hot chick to make you happy. What ever happened to that
hot chick you married? I mean, if she is ten years older and out of shape, more
than likely, so are you! So, maybe you and your wife are not intimate is as
often as you like, the sex is just boring and almost nonexistent, so what, she
is your wife, it’s your job to spice it up! What did you do ten years ago to
make her fall in love with you? Yeah, sure, every new relationship is always hot
and bothered with sex, and it does fade over the years, but you have to work at
it. Anything worth having is not easy! Putting some effort into the romance
department will get you another ten years of solid marriage, and more sex! Don’t
cheat on your wife!
Feb
15
It is just never a good idea to Cheat on your Wife, You Will get Caught!
So, a little about women’s intuition, women are smarter than we all
think! Most women are extremely detail oriented, they notice the little things.
Remember when you were a kid and your mom knew you didn’t feel good; you had a
bad day, or noticed that something was wrong? Well, seems like most women have
that same natural ability that your mom had. If you are cheating on your wife,
her instinctive abilities will kick in, she will catch on! Cheating on your wife
is never a good idea.
Women notice facial expressions, mannerisms and personality changes
way faster than us men do! IF you shaved three times this week and bought new
cologne, your wife will notice. They know if we are cheating, they may suspect,
and have no proof, so they will wait it out! A smart woman will observe the
signs, wait for small changes and then, whoop that ass!
Your wife or partner may not really know what is wrong, but she
knows that something is wrong; she just can’t put her finger on it! That is
women’s intuition whispering in her ear! Cheating on your wife is just a bad
decision, man up, keep it in the family and have some self-respect!
Feb
15
The Monetary Cost of Cheating can become Quite Expensive!
The idea of
cheating on a spouse or partner is absurd, and not only is it absurd, it can be
quite costly. The cost of a divorce attorney can soak you for $300 an hour. The
time you spend going back and forth, filing paper, motions and trying to get
visitation rights or partial custody of your children can add up to much more
than what a quickie is worth.
Filing a petition
for divorce in a state or local court is a legal proceeding and has to be done
properly or you papers will be rejected. The $300 an hour average fee that a
good divorce attorney will charge may include an initial consultation, and cover
the initial filing of the divorce papers, if you’re lucky. If you have any
assets to protect, hire a good lawyer, or you will lose every nickel you have
ever made!
The billing is
done on an hourly basis and is a pay as you go process in most cases. The
attorneys will not lift a finger without a retainer, a payment in advance or a
deposit of ½ of what you final bill is to be estimated for. If you think
cheating on your spouse is a good idea, think again. It will cost you
thousands!
After getting an
initial consultation and having the divorce papers filed, your attorney will
advise you on how to proceed with asset division. All of these proceedings will
be billed hourly and is not cheap! The average divorce settle takes 16 hours of
legal time to settle. You will be advised on splitting assets, giving half of
your pension and savings to your soon to be ex-spouse as well as shelling out
%17 percent of your income per child for child support, not to mention any child
support that you may owe to an illegitimate child born out of wedlock while
still married to your current spouse.
Cheaters never
prosper! If the spark in your life is fading, get some help with it! There are
things you can do to rekindle your relationship as well as save your family from
a personal tragedy. Children are affected severely by absent parents and
matrimonial fighting. Children tend to blame themselves and are not able to see
the truth, the reality of what is happening. Cheating causes children to have
very poor self-esteem, anxiety, and do poorly in school!
The burden on
cheating on your spouse is costly! The costs are emotional, financial, and
physical, because you may just get your ass kicked by the one you cheated on!
Not to mention, lies and deception take years to overcome. Cheating on your
partner is just not worth it!
Feb
15
Cheating on your Mate is a No- No!
Cheating on your mate is just not a good idea; you need to keep it
in your pants! The act of cheating on you mate causes distrust, anger, and hate.
Spouses who cheat on one another are breaking up families, ruining the American
dream! Many divorces, broken homes and children with abandonment issues are
floating around because you thought it was ok to CHEAT! Cheating on your mate is
just plain old grimy!
Sneaking around, and going from this one, to that one and then back to
the other is just shady. The risk of a sexually transmitted disease or an
unwanted, illegitimate pregnancy is just not enough reason to deter certain
people form cheating. The person you are cheating will be devastated. The idea
that it is ok to cheat on someone you care about is absurd!
Cheaters never prosper, at home, school or work, honesty is always
the best policy.
The idea that you are in love with a person, and love them enough
to protect them by lying about your cheating is absurd. If you loved them to
begin with, you would not be sniffing around the hen house for a new chicken;
instead, you would be at home where you belong.
Feb
13
Welcome to The Cheaters Forum
The Cheaters Forum is dedicated to helping both men and women
recover from a cheating spouse or partner. Members of the forum may be people
have cheated on their spouse, or the person who has been cheated on. Infidelity
can be a driving for a person to seek revenge, hire a private investigator or go
snooping in the night. Cheating on a spouse or partner causes such rapid and
extreme emotions and can trigger feelings of hate, insecurity, anger hostility
and much more.
The Cheaters Forum can put you in touch with other people who have
been in your situation. You can register for the forum and post your stories,
experiences and ideas about your situation. Sometime you just need to
vent!
The Cheaters Forum is for you if your pissed, been cheated on and
want revenge! It’s a sticky situation to deal with, cheating, catching the
person in the act will give you to proof you need to kick his ass or take him
for every penny in a divorce settlement.
The Cheaters Forum is dedicated to gaining information about
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members. There is no fee or charge to sign up, and you can be in direct contact
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personal information.
Aug
11
Why do men cheat?
So why do men cheat? What makes Your Man lose focus when it comes to relationships? Do all men cheat for the same reason? Well there are several types of men on this planet and no not all men cheat for the same reason. Each man has his own lame excuse. Some of the most common reasons are:
The Player in Him - Some men are addicted and cheat only due to the fact they simply can’t control themselves. They might get into a relationship or even married but after the initial phase they get back to the routine of cheating and cheat only because of lack of control on their bodies, and the simplicity of their minds.
Lack of attraction- Sometimes things tend to go dry after the initial phases of the relationship and they start looking for better options. Some men tend to loose attraction towards their wife or girlfriend but at the same time do not want to get out of the relationship for security reasons, therefore they tend to cheat.
Sex- This is the most common major reason why most men cheat. According to some men, sex tends to get boring after a while and they want something fresh. In looking for something exciting and something new they tend to cheat on their wives or girl friends.
Constant nagging- Sometimes due to constant nagging and quarrels at home, men/Boyfriends tend to cheat. This might be simply due to his ego satisfaction or just take revenge on his wife or girlfriend. This basically deals with the emotional connection a man is not able to make with his wife or girlfriend and that’s why he goes out looking for the same connection with someone else.
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